Scored against what actually predicted which couples stayed together: how you fight, how committed you both are, and whether you still notice each other.
Top bar is you. Bottom bar is them.
Your score blends seven areas. The weights come from how well each one predicted which couples lasted across 43 long-term studies covering 11,196 couples.
| Area | Weight |
|---|---|
| Commitment & investment | 22% |
| Conflict & repair | 18% |
| Appreciation & connection | 16% |
| Intimacy & responsiveness | 12% |
| Shared future & money | 12% |
| Stress & social network | 10% |
| Individual security | 10% |
The three background questions only move the score a few points. How you treat each other matters way more than demographics.
The "average couple lands around 66" figure comes from simulating typical self-report answer patterns through the same scoring model, not from uniform random answers.