Scored on what actually kept couples together: how you fight, how committed you are, whether you still notice each other.
Top bar is you. Bottom bar is them.
Seven areas, weighted by how well each one predicted which couples lasted across 43 long-term studies of 11,196 couples.
| Area | Weight |
|---|---|
| Commitment & investment | 22% |
| Conflict & repair | 18% |
| Appreciation & connection | 16% |
| Intimacy & responsiveness | 12% |
| Shared future & money | 12% |
| Stress & social network | 10% |
| Individual security | 10% |
The three background questions move the score a few points at most. How you treat each other matters far more than demographics.