Your answers are scored against what actually predicted which couples stayed together across decades of data: how you fight, how committed you both are, and whether you still notice each other.
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Some things matter more than others. The percentage is how much each one counts.
Top bar is you. Bottom bar is them.
Your score blends seven areas. The weights come from how well each one predicted which couples lasted across 43 long-term studies covering 11,196 couples.
| Area | Weight |
|---|---|
| Commitment & investment | 22% |
| Conflict & repair | 18% |
| Appreciation & connection | 16% |
| Intimacy & responsiveness | 12% |
| Shared future & money | 12% |
| Stress & social network | 10% |
| Individual security | 10% |
The three background questions only move the score a few points. How you treat each other matters way more than demographics.